So if we have to show women what the baby looks like in their womb and tell them how the process works before allowing them to get an abortion, does that mean we should teach our soldiers about the culture of the lands we’re invading, and explain to them that the people we want them to kill have families and feel pain, just like Americans?
Do you have advice on how I (and others) can deal with negativity and hate over being a virgin. Why do people feel the need to make fun of people who don't have sex? Does not having a dick enter my pussy make me less of a woman?
Anyone who judges anyone else on their level of sexual activity is basic as fuck. I’m sorry that you have to deal with such small minded idiots and that this is a concern that is hurting you. I constantly wonder why people try to use things like this to judge others, knowing full well the detrimental butterfly effect caused by it (eg. calling someone a ‘slut’ contributes to how women’s sexuality is controlled by society - and to things like how media portrays how women should be - how a woman should look, how sexy a woman should be, the virgin/whore ideals etc.)
People feel the need to make fun of people who don’t (and also do) have sex because they are insecure about their own self worth so they find short term fixes for their egos by trying to make others feel below them. If the only way you can make yourself feel ‘bigger’ is by trying to make others feel ‘smaller’ you need to check your fucking shit and actually do something with your life. Everybody is capable of change. Instead of trying to put others down, try lifting yourself up. Winners only fuck with winners. I’m lucky enough to be in a position where I know a lot of successful people and believe me we are all way too busy enjoying our awesome lives to have any time or energy to try to bring others down.
I’m not sure if this helps and I’m sorry you feel bad, but just know that this, like most negativity, is about them and not you. You do you, girl. xo
If a person posts their body online, you’ve got two options. Admire that shit, or keep it moving. It’s really not that hard of a concept. If you don’t like it, congrats on havin different taste. If you do, cool. If you’re into it, cool. If you’re creeping or hating, calm that shit down. You’re doin too much.